Stop rooting through the trash.
That’s just filthy, once you made a decision that it is trash - it’s final. It works the same way in life, once a decision is made, it should be treated as final. full stop; It’s FINAL. There’s no going back.
Going through the trash once it is taken out to the curb, not only makes you look filthy others but whatever you think is important is not worth it
So stop second guessing, and just go for it. Choose a single decision that feels right, punch it in.
Consider this
A student asked, “Why do I feel worse after revisiting a decision I made?”
The philosopher handed him a cracked cup. “Drink.”
Water leaked through his fingers.
The philosopher said, “You threw it away for a reason. Going back only leaves you wet and empty. What’s discarded should stay discarded. Regret is a vessel that never holds.”
Simple.
No man steps in the same river twice, for it is not the same river and he is not the same man.